For ATY’s 2019 Reading Challenge prompt #49, a book written by a Far East Asian author or set in a Far East Asian country, I chose to read Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, by Lisa See. I don’t remember how this book first came to my attention, but the premise intrigued me and I added it to my list. I’m glad I finally made it a priority and read it.
Set in nineteenth century China, this book tells the story of Lily. Lily is fortunate to draw the attention of a well-connected family from a nearby village, and she is matched with a daughter of that family in a traditional female relationship known as laotong, or “old sames.”
Written as a sort of memoir, the book opens with Lily at the age of 80. From this vantage, she looks back over her life and the choices she made, both good and bad. She begins with her earliest memories as a young girl, the arranging of her elder sister’s marriage, her own installation into the women’s chamber. This memoir style lends to the story a personal feel to this period of China’s history that was both deeply entrenched in tradition and on the verge of huge change.
This book is so emotionally moving and compelling. As I read it, I was horrified, amused, devastated. I found this look into Chinese culture fascinating. Though I couldn’t help but be disturbed by the way women and girls were treated – especially the graphic description of the foot binding process. Still, I was impressed by the strong relationships women had with each other
This book is amazing. I wasn’t sure at first how I felt about it. It took some time to get into the flow. But once I did, I was thoroughly engaged. I highly recommend this book.